Years
ago, I chose to be a peacemaker, and it’s a daily struggle. It means when
you face a conflict, you don’t aggravate it further (i.e., pour fuel over the
fire), instead, you mitigate it and focus on nurturing goodwill.
The
model was created by Jesus, Muhammad (pbuh), Gandhi, MLK and
several others. Turning the other cheek (Jesus) or praying for those who pelt
stones (Muhammad) at them are two of the many models. Remember the intent was not yielding, fighting or digging in your heels,
but finding a sustainable solution, so each can focus on living the life instead of planning, scheming and avenging the other in their vulnerable moments.
Pluralism continues to be misunderstood as a hybrid or a mish mash of
religions. Some of the Indians and Pakistanis are familiar with such an effort
in the 16th century by the Mogul Emperor Akbar, who made an effort to
create “Deen-e-Elahi” – a religion of God, it failed miserably, people did not have a sense of belonging or bonding to one without giving up their own. Unfortunately, those few are
conditioned to jump when the bell rings, and spontaneously conclude that
Pluralism is a mish-mash of religions.
Pluralism
is not a religion, it is not an ideology either, it is simply an attitude of
respecting other religions and others way of life without the arrogance that
mine is better, scientific, older, rational, proven, makes sense, ageless or
otherwise…. Religion is not about feeling superior; it is indeed humility,
which builds cohesive societies, whereas arrogance kills it all.
Here are a few questions we need to ask ourselves, “Do I believe my religion is superior to the other? Does it amount to arrogance? Did I get my religion?
On the other hand, the peace maker in you has raised your eyebrows when a few Christians, Hindus or Jews
insist that Islam is a religion of oppression. You may have been surprised
when a few Muslims charge that Christians and Hindus are blood thirsty, and
some from each group shamelessly stereotype the Jews. Facts don’t matter to some of our vociferous friends.
Indeed,
Pluralism is respecting each other’s religion, the way they believe and not the
way we insist. There is no need for anyone to give up his or her religion to
please the other. Pluralism is you stick with yours and I stick with mine, but
together we have to find common ground to co-exist with our differences.
For
every Christian, Jew and a Hindu bigot, proportionally there is one among Muslims too, may be
two, but no more. The sane majority needs to help them, pray for them and
shepherd them away from unsubstantiated material.
The
intellectualism of Robert Spencer and Narayan Kataria may amaze you, they have
held symposiums about Islam without Muslims in it, and have issued
unilateral statements. Similarly a few Muslims draw their own conclusions about Christianity or Hinduism without even asking the practitioners of the religions. Indeed, I asked them to include a main stream Muslim to
be on their panel, and I even volunteered to be one, but their intent was not a
rational discussion.
The film Monster among us was shown to a Jewish
audience about the danger of Anti-Semitism in Europe. It was
a frightening movie to the Jews about Muslims in Europe, the producer was
clear to me, this movie is strictly a Jewish perspective, and you should not
come. And of course, I went, I was the only Non-Jew beside a Christian friend
who went with me, there were six blatant falsities in the movie. People were shooting
questions, finally a sane man from the back yelled, “Hey Allen, it’s about
Moslems, have you shown this to any Moslem?” The producer reluctantly pointed
out to me, after some finger pointing at Muslims, the entire group said in
unison, “Give him the microphone”. That
is another story at:
http://www.foundationforpluralism.com/Articles/Jewish-Muslim-dialogue-a-necessity.asp
Obviously, any idea that paves the way for people to see the beauty of each
faith threatens the frightened ones, as if their faith is going to vanish by
acknowledging the goodness of other faiths, they are very insecure folks.
Christianity is here to stay, so is Judaism, Islam, Hinduism and all other
faiths.
Had God willed, all of us would be alike, but he chose each one of us to be
unique, and Pluralism is respecting that uniqueness in each one of us.
A
verse in Quran 49:13 presumes, that conflict exist between different people
because they have not taken the time to know each other, and it guides us
further to know each other, to learn about each other. When we take time to
know each other, misunderstandings fade and solutions emerge, it happens even
with our own family members, friends and co-workers. And then God
says the best ones among you are the ones who take the time to know each other.
Indeed, those who know, come to respect the uniqueness Creator has endowed to
each one of us and accept each other as they are, as long as you mind your own
religion and not infringe upon others. “Blessed are the peacemakers”,
said Jesus.
The article Interfaith Christmas was written in a series about “knowing each other”, I hope it will help us get along with all without requiring us
to change for the other.
If you are keeping up with the world, Indonesia and some other Muslim nations
were considering banning saying, “Merry Christmas” and failed. Malaysia wanted
to monopolize and own Allah, and failed to prevent Sikhs and Christians calling
him, Allah. Those attitudes are repugnant and the cause of conflicts and thank God
they failed. But what we have failed to do was to sit and work with the ones who lost the battle, instead of having them to live with the feeling of getting even whenever they get a chance.
Interfaith has been helpful in preventing many conflicts in the United States.
Jews and Christians have stood up for Muslims and Muslims have stood up for them. Yet a few Muslims, a few Christians and a few Jews
don’t get it.
Mike Huckabee said the massacre in Newtown has to do with the
moral decay of the society, and then Pastor Gaddy (both Baptist preachers)
corrected him in Huffington post. MLK worked hard to get equal rights for
all, but the pastors of the same religion at that time called him names… but
that did not stop MLK from moving forward, and he did what was the right thing
to do. Civil rights act has sustained because MLK did not project it as a defeat to the ones who opposed it.
Well my friends, the purpose of writing the article is to express that Jesus or
Muhammad are not the exclusive properties of Christians or Muslims, their
message belongs to the whole humanity just as the message of all the spiritual masters; to create a better world for all of us
to live. We can take it the way it works for us, but we should not make their
teachings a wedge between us, they did not intend.
You
are welcome to differ and the whole world can differ, if you believe you can
contribute towards a better society, then you must express it, and I did that
in the article. I am not asking anyone to buy the idea, it is up to them.
Just
remember no idea in the world has been subscribed to by 100% of the population,
even our President was not elected by 100% – there is rarely a bill in the
house that has passed with unanimity.
Let us absorb one more thing; God does not want 100% of the world to be Christians, Muslims, Unaffiliated, Hindus, Buddhists, Jews, Sikhs, Jain and others. Had he willed, he would have done it. He prefers the uniqueness of each one of us and wants us to figure out our own peace to live in harmony, and we have to work towards that goal.
Additional comments
Md Yunus writes,
I am
glad to read this article on this Christmas day from a fellow Muslim who is
celebrating Christmas as it realizes my dream that was articulated more than
three years ago in a letter to Qantara.de editor dated Oct. 2009 that reads as
below:
“Muslims regard their Prophet (Muhammad) with inordinate love and
devotion, as reflects in their vociferous and even violent reactions to
attempts to lampooning him in the media or literary works. but there is hardly
any visibility of their devotion to Jesus Christ. Islam not only venerates
Jesus Christ and his Mother, Mary, it also asks Muslims to make no distinction
between any of the Prophets (2:177, 2:285, 4:152, 57:19). Historically Muslim
scholarship has remained silent about these complementarities, and instead,
focused on the differences between the two faiths.
But today, when increasing gap, hatred and mistrust between Islam and
Christianity is leading to terrorism and “Just wars” with terrible
consequences, its time that Muslim scholarship takes notice of the common
boundaries, and encourages the Muslims to visibly showing devotion to Jesus
Christ by celebrating the Christmas, and praying for peace together with their
Christian brothers.
Anna Hourihan writes, “Mike. I
particularly like your interpretation of John 14:6: “I am the way and the
truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.” To have
that Christ-consciousness and Christ’s example of how to live is the thing, and
not that the person Jesus is the only way to salvation. Many blessings to you
and your family this Christmas!”
Marylou writes, “A very beautiful and touching article, Mike. Thank you! You are correct in your interp of Jesus’ statement no one comes to the father but by way of me — this is not to be taken literally. As you stated, it means to follow his example. Jesus never made himself equal with God. He said specifically: The father is greater than I am. He also told us to pray directly to God and even gave us the exact prayer, “Our Father, who is in heaven … ”
It is ok to have different understandings, that is Pluralism, but it should not create ill-will or hatred towards each other, that is not the intention of the teachings of any spiritual master, be it Jesus or Muhammad.
Comments | Posted December 24, 2012 | 5:04 PM