When a conflict arises between family members, before you sue each other, you seek guidance from other family members, friends, church and the counselors, if you don’t find a solution; you go to the court as a last resort. The court may appoint a mediator if the parties are willing to abide by the decisions or simply take it up with the bench or the jury.
Those who opt for a mediator may agree to common guidelines and one of them is available from your religious sources. In case of Muslims, if the couple is willing to seek Sharia to guide them to serve justice equitably to both and willing to abide by, the mediator will get that agreement approved by the judge. The Christians may seek Pastoral counseling as Jews may seek guidance from the Halaqa, their family laws.
Who would not want a resolution to their conflict, be it through friends or religious laws? Isn’t it between them? If a couple chooses to settle their dispute about child custody, divorce or inheritance they should seek all resources including Sharia, which is designed to serve equitable justice to people. It is unfortunate that people have come to associate Sharia with injustices, indeed abuse of law is prevalent in every nation and society where the innocent is nailed, just as we have administered lethal injection to innocent men and women in Texas.
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http://www.denverpost.com/commented/ci_19712265
http://edition.cnn.com/2012/01/10/justice/oklahoma-sharia/index.html
http://www.star-telegram.com/2012/01/10/3650654/federal-court-reminds-oklahoma.html
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5nL6a0wKod4
http://usnews.msnbc.msn.com/_news/2012/01/10/10097954-federal-court-deals-blow-to-anti-shariah-efforts
http://www.tulsaworld.com/news/article.aspx?subjectid=11&artic